26 October 2008

FAQs

In all my years of blogging, I often encounter emails asking me about this & that, so I gathered up some of the frequently asked questions which I'm going to answer as directly as I can in today's post. Wala kasi akong makwento kaya ito nalang pinost ko. Haha!

Q: What's your job?
A: I'm engaged in the family biz which deals with printing and manufacturing.
Q: What are your stats?
A: I'm 33 years old. I'm not tall, I'm only 5'7" and I weigh around 130lbs.
Q: What are your interests?
A: I love to edit videos, gym, going to the movies, videogames, eating out and trying different restaurants. I love to eat ya know? :-)
Q: Why do you often post shirtless pics of yourself?
A: It's because I want to keep track of how my body's been improving or not improving throughout the years. Add to that the fact that my blog seems to get more hits whenever I post such pics. LOL :-)
Q: You said that you're a G4M member, how many G4M members have you met & played with?
A: I've lost track of the numbers. Not more than 30, +/-12 of which I were "naughty" encounters. This was all in the span of +/- 2 years that I've been a member. I got really active especially when I was still single. However, when I began my relationship with my bf, it's very seldom that I meet members anymore even if members asked me to meet on a friendly basis. Don't worry I'm not gonna name names. I respect other people's privacy.
Q: Are you in an open relationship?
A: It depends on my bf's mood. Hahaha! Sometimes he allows me to have "fun" with others. Lately he's been a little strict. It's probably that ummm...time of the month again. LOL! Love ya babe!
Q: Have you done/acted in any blue or adult movie?
A: This is a strange question but it pops up from time to time. No, I haven't done any of those stuff.
Q: What turns you on?
A: Good character, good conversations, sense of humor, nice physique, fresh smelling body, bronze/exotic, tan lines down under ;-) Still, no matter how attractive the person is physically, if he had an unpleasant personality, I wouldn't waste my time on him.
Q What turns you off?
A: Drama queens, hypocrisy, people who think too highly of themselves thinking that they're better than everybody else, immaturity, homophobia, freeloaders, judgmental people, lack of common sense.

Q: When did you come out? Do you regret being gay?
A: I came out in 2003. Sometimes I think that life would have been a lot simpler and easier if I was straight, but I do not regret being gay. I don't hate myself that much as to say that I regret being queer.
Q: What's your view on gay marriage?
A: Marriage is legal right that should be given to all people regardless of sexual orientation. I believe that to deny homosexuals the basic rights as the right to be legally married, is like the government treating us as if we are 2nd class citizens. I'm pro gay marriage.
Q: Define good sex?
A: I often get emails about sex. Hahaha! I'm not a sex expert ok? I just enjoy doing the deed. Haha! Well, good sex for me involves love & mutual physical attraction. I'm not into casual sex. I just don't immediately have sex with anyone. I have to get to know the person first for me to get comfortable with him in bed later on so that I'll deliver a good performance that'll result in an encore. LOL! ;-)
Q: Why does it take you long to make new videos?
A: It's because I'm preoccupied with other matters (i.e. work) and it's difficult finding a third person who can assist my bf and I in making videos. Assisting means also becoming the cameraman and becoming one of the actors in the vid. Most Filipino gay men are discreet & are conscious of being outed.
Q: Why do you often choose 80s or old songs in your videos?
A: I love classic songs. 80's music reminds me of my youth and childhood :-) I don't like the fashion and hairstyle from that decade though. Mullet hair. Acid washed jeans. Aquanet. Shoulder pads. Eww! Haha!
Q: Do you have a Friendster account?
A: Not anymore. I deleted my Friendster account a few months ago.
Q: Have you encountered any homophobic comments reactions on your blog and videos?
A: Yes, I do receive homophobic comments, hateful messages, and destructive criticisms from time to time. I just delete those kinds of messages and move on. Trashy people are not worth my time.
This is all for now. Have a nice day :-)

8 comments:

Miong21 said...

Very informative I must say. Haha! Take care Rey!

Anonymous said...

why did you decide to start a blog?

actually, it is a good post because it reveals a bit more of who you are as a person and more than the eye-candy.

R

greg said...

Wow! An FAQ, that's interesting... I'm sure that all of your avid blog readers would be delighted!

Since you have started answering questions frequently asked of you, I had an intriguing one that I have been dying to ask... there was this time when I was telling a good friend of mine about your blog. He checked it out and had a recall of an incident in a chatroom wherein a vid was posted in which the characters were drunk and doing things which were innapropriate... he said you were in it. I really couldn't believe what he said that I repeatedly asked him if he was sure that it was you or maybe the guy was just as good-looking as you. He said yes, but of course I didn't believe that you've done it... I need to hear from you if it really happened.

You may not approve to post this comment (even I wasn't comfortable of asking this, pero this might be the only chance I got...) but I really need to know if the incident really transpired. I'm crossing my fingers that it didn't!

greg ~ gregzmd@yahoo.com

robert said...

hello,e2 na naman ako.lol.a lot of "nice to know" today ha.thanks rey,may mga napulot akong pointers from this post.i'm a pro-gay marriage too.karapatan natin yun.pero ayoko pang magpakasal.lol.baka hindi siya magsign sa prenuptial agreement...lol.take care and God Bless.
hello everyone.

robert said...

oh,by the way,i like your newly posted pics.very nicely done...nanginginig na naman ako.lol.joke.no kidding,maganda siya.everything's in its proper places.hahaha.are you taking it yourself?galing.

Toyo said...

thanks for all the comments.
- i started blogging (2005) because i wanted the person i had a relationship back then to keep track of the things going on in my life. he was abroad.
- your friend probably just mistook the guy for me, greg. i rarely drink & get drunk in the first place.
- yup, most of the pics i've placed here in my blog were shot by myself. i'm too shy to ask other people to take pictures of me :-)

have a wonderful autumn day :-)

terry said...

Happy Halloween to you and your readers!

Kevin said...

I got a lot of things to say but I think you already know that. I just want to post something so I can be a permanent part of this blog. I just wish that you will always be happy and things will be well for you all the time. Take care and God Bless. - Kevin