22 March 2010

Weeding Out

I recently weeded out some contacts from my FaceBook account. Members who requested to be connected to me but didn't even bother trying to get to know me throughout the whole time that they've been a part of my list of "friends" in FaceBook. Some of them I haven't even met in real life. I was just concerned that I might offend them if I didn't approve their "invitation" to be my FaceBook buddies which is why I added them in my list of friends. Anyway, I deleted them and I'm going to delete more. I'd rather have a few connections than a thousand. I mean, who has a thousand +++ friends in the first place? A cyberslut?! LOL! I'd understand if you're a celebrity, a fan page or an organization, but if you're not then... How can one nurture a thousand friendships? Baffling! LOL!
I also organized contacts in my phones. I deleted contacts who do not even bother replying if I sent them text messages, especially if it's a specific text message. Don't you just hate it when people do that to you? I mean, ignoring your text messages. I have 3 phone numbers. Contacts in the cheapest phone are for new acquaintances and umm..flirting. LOL! I rarely use my cheapest phone. Contacts in my Nokia Communicator are people that I've been communicating for some time now and are thinking of meeting or possibly becoming friends with in real life, it's also a business phone. Contacts in my IPhone are family & friends. I recently demoted (demoted? as in! LOL!) one contact in my IPhone and transferred it in my cheapest phone. I texted him yesterday but he didn't reply. It's a shame, I was about to ask him to meet me since we both live in the same town. Wanted him to spend a Sunday afternoon here in my house since I was so bored and all alone. It means I will not contact him anymore since his number is deleted from my IPhone. I hate mind games. He's not worth it.



11 comments:

Anonymous said...

hmmm, spring cleaning in the summer. i should try that.

Toyo said...

yup, getting rid of the clutter ;-)

KAKEHIKO said...

sad =(
i guess i am one of those youve deleted on ur facebook account...

Toyo said...

ummm...i don't recall deleting a kakehiko in my facebook.

Kyle said...

Saan phone mo kaya nakalagay ang number ko?
Kaw talaga papa Toyo ha!

greg said...

hi rey... please let me be among those guys in your facebook list, but I could't find you there?

Greg

Toyo said...

@Kyle. Nasa communicator.
@Greg,
Leave your email add on my comment box Greg & I'll add you in my FaceBook. For your privacy, I'm not going to publish your email add here.

Thanks for the comments.

leone said...

I'll try to find you now on Facebook with the hope you'll accept my request and not delete me subsequent to that! Ha ha. Hope you are well angel!! xx Leone xxx

Toyo said...

But you don't know my email address Leone.
I am doing ok, a little stressed but coping.
Yeah I'm an angel....an angel with a pitchfork. Hehehe!
Take care :-)

Anonymous said...

the only trouble with meeting new friends for real is the possibility of total love, passion and uncontrollable ecstasy!

this comment was delivered by a very shy and anonymous person.

Toyo said...

@Anonymous

Love, passion and uncontrollable ecstasy? sign me up! Hehehe!